Our staff prepares to meet with a family that has just lost their beloved 88 year old grandmother, with a stack of papers in one arm and a hanger with a lavender dress in the other. Our staff member approaches them offering condolences, as she takes the lavender dress from the daughter she asks if she has brought undergarments as well, the daughter excuses herslef, assuming she is going to the car to retrieve them; she makes a sharp right into the restroom area, comes back out with a bright green thong in hand. "These are clean, just put them on this morning".